My kids give me different positive emotions. At 3 months, my daughter it's basically contentment vs stress, my oldest at 3 is joy and happy and sometimes angry. I should go somewhere with this in terms of utilitarianism and the difficulties of happiness vs satisfaction vs joy and what to optimize for. Different paths: Achilles question -- being there for family vs extreme sports & celebrity or entrepreneurship for example. Mill vs. Bentham annoys me because of the "MIll was trying salvage hedohism b/c hedonism was founded by his godfather, but he called it something else" aspect of philosophy. - [ ] Add this to a #articleseed #articleseed/essay about whose philosophy to trust piece -- mill helped with adultery, kant never married and was pretty dysfunctional, marcus aurelis seems like he was maybe a bad dad? need to investigate this more. - [ ] See also this [[Forum Discussions]] -- https://www.datasecretslox.com/index.php/topic,10382.new.html#new